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I am in a really uncomfortable situation right now. my bf is away out of the country, so I have no way to contact him except through email. He is going to be away for another six weeks.

Try focusing on yourself these weeks while he is away and decide what YOU want. For goodness sake don’t write him long pouring out your heart or worse nasty emails accusing him of things you have no idea are true. You wrote that you can’t contact him except email so not sure why you are upset he called…maybe he can’t. Don’t always assume the worst about your relationship. Something could have happened and he is unable to contact you…your first concern should be is he physically okay. Your negatitive vibe is your insecurities digging at you. Maybe this is a good time to evaluate your relationship and discover what it is that is making you so insecure. Although it is not wrong to expect a resonable explanation for his silence. We can’t control what other people do or don’t do and part of your discomfort is the lack of control and that is something you will have to learn to deal with on your own.

You can only control what you do. Keep writing him by email everyday like normal even just to say hello or ask if he is okay and to email you back that he is or not and what happened. Until you hear from him or he comes back there is not a whole lot you can do about the situation. But you can live your life and take care of yourself until then. Go out and do things that you couldn’t or didn’t have time to do while being with this guy. You are right…breaking up over email is not the right thing to do. But do talk to him when he comes back about his silence while he was away and the status of your relationship because it seems that you really don’t know what that is and that may be another reason why you feel off centered by this. Good luck

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Break ups are a common thing these days, if you have broken up with someone you are not alone. There are some people that have had numerous break ups. The problem with some of these people is they never gave themselves time to recover from one relationship before jumping right into the next. Some men and woman take this as a way to speed up their recovery time or to quickly get over their previous partner.

Jumping straight into another relationship is the worst thing you can do. This type of person may have never learned to live happily on their own, always having someone by their side to take care of or even control. Until a man or woman can learn to be dependent on their own they will never be able to be happy in a relationship.

So, what you need to do after a break up is take needed time to recover. It’s ok to cry and grieve and feel sorry for yourself, but do not take advantage of this time to hide out in your house cut off from the world. You next need to stay busy, this means going out and enjoying yourself with your friends or family especially if you have not seen much of them because of your relationships..

Meet some new people or join a social group, this can help take your mind off of your ex. Taking care of yourself at this time is also very important. If you need to loose weight, now would be a great time to try, how about going to a gym. Making a new you will boost your self esteem and you will feel much better about yourself.

The period of time you should take off before dating again varies from person to person but should be at least a couple months, longer if necessary. Dating would be ok during this time if you just do not take it seriously, don’t commit yourself.

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