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<p>my name is A&#8217;nyeah &#038; i am 20 years old and i am having some problems with my b/f&#8230;. he is 23, and we&#8217;ve been together since my junior year of H.S. (02&#8242;) he means the world to me but i just dont know, he has some problems, and sum issues &#038; i juss would lik to get some adivice&#8230; love ta tlk ta sum sistaz bout muh problem so if u out there thn hit me up*<br />
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<p>That question brings lots of discussion, both positive and negative. Are black men and women at Civil War with each other as suggested by those in the media and academia? I often state that it&#8217;s easy to say in our relationships that we need to talk to each other more. But what if you don&#8217;t know how? What if you don&#8217;t know how to control your emotions, or how to fight lovingly and fairly, or even how to say what you mean and not what you feel?</p>
<p>Oftentimes, we express our emotions instead of our feelings. Now I know, you are thinking, &#8220;wait-what&#8217;s the difference?&#8221; I would say, &#8220;yes, there is&#8221;. Our emotions are anger, happiness, sadness that causes our feelings of jealous, depression, love or joy.</p>
<p>How do we teach our children and ourselves to deal with our emotions that will allow us to engage in conversation or provide guidance that can be informative, healing and healthily confrontational? Not all confronts is negative. In black families, we are easy to teach our children how to emulate society&#8217;s expectations of us. Perhaps, in a subconscious manner, to make our children appear less threatening (there is a cultural implications here). We even teach our children what type of mate would be best, but do we remiss in teaching them what kind of mate they should be? Is it enough to &#8220;act like a lady, but think like a man&#8221;? Do we as a community cause a disservice to our children, or even to ourselves when we fail to learn how to problem-solve or become solution-focused, how to face rejection or bad circumstances then how to overcome it? When we teach our children about what their high school transcripts should look like to get into the &#8220;right&#8221; college, do we fail them when we don&#8217;t guide and mold them to become, not just good citizens, but good mate or significant others?</p>
<p>When will we be willing to join others like Tony Gaskins, Jr. or Hill Harper, being proactive in the conversation about the state of our relationships and how to heal ourselves? Or are we only willing to engage in the self-destructive judgmental opinion of celebrity lives of those like Chris Brown and Rihanna? Black leadership begins in our homes. Whom are you leading and to where are you leading them to?</p>
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I dont want to go through yahoo answers for a person question, people are so rude on here sometimes.  It&#8217;s like they have nothing better to do with thier time then put down other people.  If they are not going to answer with a real, thoughful, answer WHY bother answering&#8230;.but thanks though
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<p>Despite popular misconceptions, long distance relationships are not a product of the internet age. For generations, couples have been separated from each other for many reasons &ndash; college, the military and jobs are just a few examples. Over the years, couples separated from circumstances have learned how to keep their romance alive from afar. These days, thanks to the internet and unlimited cell phone plans, it&rsquo;s easier than ever to stay in touch with your sweetie when you&rsquo;re far apart.</p>
<p>1. Set expectations of your relationship. The Center for the Study of Long Distance Relationships identified one key factor in successful long distance relationships. The couples in those relationships that last more than six months have talked about their expectations of the relationship. How often will you see each other? How often will you talk? What is the future?</p>
<p>2. Communicate frequently. Communication is the cornerstone of any relationship, and it&rsquo;s far more important when you&rsquo;re far away from your sweetheart. Take advantage of as many different types of communication as you can &ndash; telephone, email, webcam, letters &ndash; even text messages.</p>
<p>3. Get a low-cost telephone solution. Long gone are the days when you have to run up hundreds in phone bills just to talk to your absent partner. Do some research to find the best phone service for your relationship. Some ideas: VOIP phone service, Skype or a cell phone provider with free in-network calling. When cost isn&rsquo;t a factor, you can talk all night long once in a while.</p>
<p>4. Webcam &ndash; the next best thing to being there. A cheap webcam can let you get closer than ever to being in the same room. Webcam chats are a good way to add a visual aspect to your communication when you&rsquo;re far apart.</p>
<p>5. Get creative with your &ldquo;together&rdquo; time. Just because you&rsquo;re in different cities doesn&rsquo;t mean that you can&rsquo;t do things together. Get creative. Make a weekly date to watch a movie or favorite TV show together &ndash; over the phone.</p>
<p>6. Establish rituals. Rituals help establish stability in a relationship. You may not be able to kiss good night each night, but a nightly &ldquo;I love you&rdquo; text message just before bedtime can be a substitute that establishes expectations and a shared reality.</p>
<p>7. Keep living your life. Don&rsquo;t just sit around between contacts with your honey. Get involved in things that are important to you. Not only does it give you less time to pine, but it will also provide interesting things to share with each other when you do have time to talk.</p>
<p>I hope that this long distance relationships advice helps. I know that it can&rsquo;t replace the emptiness that most long distance participants feel, but hopefully, it sheds some lights on what to do to make it work.</p>
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<p>When you look at the title of this article, you are probably asking yourself, &#8220;do people really pay to get their girlfriends back?&#8221; The answer is no. What is meant by the above statement is simply this; you do not need to spend any money to get your girlfriend back. With some careful reading and a spark of creativity, you can get your ex girlfriend back free of charge.</p>
<p>You Do Not Need To Buy Anything!</p>
<p>You need to understand that buying something, or many things, for your ex girlfriend is not going to get her back. The only times this will work is if the girl was only interested in material things in the first place. If this is the case, it is best to stay away from her anyway.</p>
<p>If you are looking to get your ex back, and get your ex girlfriend back for free, you will need to be armed with a lot of creativity. Below are some examples of how to get your ex girlfriend back free.</p>
<p>1. Write and sing a song: Not only does this show creativity, it doesn&#8217;t cost anything. All you will need is a piece of paper and a pen. Making up a song is a great way to win back your ex because it shows you are thoughtful, creative and put a lot of time into making the song. Moreover, it shows you will go to great lengths for her, even if it is rather embarrassing on your account!</p>
<p>2. Write a poem: If you are not the type of person that wants to sing, you can write a poem or nice letter expressing your feelings. This is basically a song, just not being portrayed verbally. Although this may seem clich&eacute;, this is one of the most popular ways to get your ex girlfriend back free.</p>
<p>3. Do a Favor for her: make a little coupon and stick it somewhere where she will find it. Have on it &#8220;redeem at any time.&#8221; The idea is to let her know you are there for her and that you will be there for her any time she needs you.</p>
<p>4. Help her with her homework, if applicable: If she is struggling in a subject, ask if you can help her. Set up a study date. This will allow you to interact with her, yet remain productive. The focus will be on the studies and not on the relationship. You can show her your worth this way.</p>
<p>5. Be yourself and stay faithful to her: It is very much the popular thing to try and make your ex jealous. The fact is, if she sees you remaining faithful to her, she will find that very mature and of good quality. This alone might attract her to you more.</p>
<p>In all, focus on the things that really matter, not material things. You have to remember this is a person you are dealing with. A person has emotions; and that is where you need to cater to.</p>
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<p>What are some clues that my ex will come back to me if I don&#8217;t talk to her. What are some aspects of a relationship bring girls back to guys.</p>
<p>We had a great relationship, she broke up because she said it was too serious and she had to experience more out of life and needed space. Prior to this, she was in love with me.
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<p>If you want your ex girlfriend back then the first step is to make contact with her again.  Ask her out to do something fun and casual, something you both enjoy doing.  Don&#8217;t make a big deal out of it and don&#8217;t talk about the relationship while you&#8217;re out with her.</p>
<p>The idea is to let her reconnect with that original positive energy that attracted her to you in the first place without feeling any &#8220;seriousness&#8221; or pressure from you.</p>
<p>Also, remember that girls are attracted to guys that appear confident, emotionally strong and independent.  You can let her know you still care and are open to getting back together, but don&#8217;t do it in a way that comes across as needy or desperate.</p>
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<p>The fact is, 90 percent of the time there is no reason why you cannot get an ex back after a break up, providing that you know what steps are necessary to win your ex back.</p>
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<p><strong>1)</strong> The first step is to determine what exactly happened that caused the break up. You can&#8217;t go back into the past and changed what happened but you <strong>can</strong> learn from the mistakes that were made and you <strong>can</strong> learn and grow from the experiences.</p>
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<p>The break up may have occurred because of a single event, or it may have occurred from behaviors that your ex could not deal with anymore. No matter what the reason was that led to the breakup, you need to get the specifics figured out so that you can deal with the situation if it should never come up again. You can get an ex back if you know how, but if you want to make it work on a long term basis, you need to figure out what went wrong in the first place.</p>
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<p><strong>2)</strong> Do not come off as a needy person. Don&#8217;t make it seem that you can&#8217;t live without your ex. This will only make you look like a weakling and nobody wants a weakling. Instead, stay strong and let your ex see that you are doing just fine by yourself. Giving an impression of strength and self confidence will raise the impression your ex has of you. This can only increase your chances of getting your ex to come back to you.</p>
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<p><strong>3) </strong>Do <strong>NOT</strong> try to get back at your ex, or try to make him or her jealous. This will only make you look spiteful and immature. Who wants to be around someone like that? This will only anger your ex and push them further away from you. Creating a mature impression of yourself in the eyes of your ex will raise their estimation of you and increase your chances of getting them back.</p>
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<p><strong>Conclusion:</strong></p>
<p>It may not eb easy but you can indeed get your ex back after a breakup. To get all the information you need check the links in my bio. I wish you all the best in getting your ex back.</p>
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<p>So just how to get your ex to come back. The truth is, they may never come back and this is something you have to factor into your thinking right now. While it may be the last thing you want to think about it is a strong chance of happening.</p>
<p>So then how can you get your ex to come back to you? There are definite strategies you can apply and we&#8217;ll look at them in this article. But understand that each requires a certain set of circumstances and you&#8217;ll have a decison to make on which road you go down. </p>
<p><strong>First Strategy To Get Ex To Come Back</strong></p>
<p>This is a natural strategy when you are planning to get your ex to come back. But most blow it right here. It&#8217;s shortly after the break up and things are tense. Your ex wants you out so what do you do? You walk away. </p>
<p>However, the majority don&#8217;t and will stay and argue their point, they&#8217;ll continually call, text and email and anything other than what their ex wants them to do &#8211; give them space. If this is you and you persist in trying to make your ex see sense then you will drive them right out of your life. Give them the time they need to miss you again.</p>
<p><strong>Second Strategy To Get Ex To Come Back</strong></p>
<p>Once this phase is over then you can decide whether to use a strategy with a little nudge or one where you take things extremely slow. Being aggressive is not for everyone. When we say be aggressive it&#8217;s simply you taking a chance on your ex not really wanting to make the split final.</p>
<p>This can backfire and you really need to be sure of your hunch. Definitely don&#8217;t go overboard because if you&#8217;re wrong, then you will virtually drive them clear out of your life. </p>
<p><strong>Third Strategy To Get Ex To Come Back</strong></p>
<p>This is our preferred path of action once you have given them the time to miss you again. It basically revolves around becoming friends again. In fact, it&#8217;s about starting over as if you first met. You will be a lot wiser this time around. You&#8217;ll learn from your mistakes.</p>
<p>This strategy is for those who want to maintain some kind of connection with their former partner. Truth is, it will take time to get your ex to come back and in many situations, going down this route often sees a couple stay friends without even getting back to the lover&#8217;s stage.</p>
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<p>First of all, think about why you are fighting. Are you fighting about stuff that really matters or do you either of you just get mad because you don&#8217;t get your way. </p>
<p>If you have an anger problem then you need to get counseling to deal with your anger issues. </p>
<p>Making a change in a relationship always starts with the person you see in the mirror every day. </p>
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<p>Breakups are always hard to handle when you do not know how to approach it. Do not despair as you are not going through this alone; your ex is probably feeling the same pain as you are feeling right now as well. So what you should do now is to look on the bright side and be optimistic about getting back together again. There are ways which would enable you to get your ex back faster than you can possibly think and let me reveal to you those secrets in just a moment.</p>
<p><strong>1. Do not let your ex decide how you should be feeling right now</strong></p>
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<p>You have got to detach yourself totally from your ex&rsquo;s each and every action from now. Do not let his words hurt you anymore as you are already in the process of healing from the breakup earlier. Do not allow your ex to have the control of your feelings. <strong>A must-know if you want to get your ex back!</strong></p>
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<p><strong>2. Do let your ex realise that you are better off without him</strong></p>
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<p>Do not feel like it is the end of the world. Instead, live life as per normal. Go out with your friends and family. Let your ex know that you are still well. When you start to love yourself, then others will desire to love you. <strong>A must-know if you want to get your ex back!</strong></p>
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<p><strong>3. Appear as though you are relived</strong></p>
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<p>Relationships should never be treated as a burden. However, here, I am going to ask you to appear in front of your ex as though you are being freed from the clutches of unhappiness of your relationship with your ex. When your ex realises that you no longer desire to be with him/her, then your ex will always try to get your back. <strong>A must-know if you want to get your ex back!</strong></p>
<p>Now ask yourself this &ndash; Do you want your ex back? Do you want to get your ex back? How are you going to get your ex back? Learning how to get your ex back is not some rocket science; it is all possible if you know how! Throughout the article, I have gone through a systematic plan which lays the foundation for you to learn how to get your ex back.</p>
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<p>Will my ex boyfriend come back to me? This is a common question for women who have broken up with their ex boyfriends. Your ex boyfriend might come back to you but you will need to do some things in order to be a magnet and attract him back. If you just lay still and expect him to come then you will be wasting your precious time. How to get your ex boyfriend has a lot to do with your actions and what you tell him after a break up happens. Here are some tips on how to get back your ex boyfriend:</p>
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<p><b>Be Nice To Him</b> -Most women forget that in order to be able to attract their ex boyfriends back, they need to be nice after and during a break up. Remember that what you say after and during a break up may influence what kind of friendship you will have with your ex boyfriend. What you want hear is to be nice to him all the time. Do not call him words, Do not disrespect him in any kind of way and always try to avoid arguments. Being nice is one of the strategies on how to get your ex boyfriend back.</p>
<p><b>Respect His Wishes</b> &#8211; This is something that you will need to do no matter how angry you are and no matter how much you love him and miss him. Men hate it when an ex girlfriend doesn&#8217;t seem to respect their wishes. For example your ex boyfriend may tell you that he needs some space after a break up or during a break up. This is something that you will need to respect because if you don&#8217;t you might push him away. The reason for this is because you want to create an opportunity to be able to get back to him, You want to make it easier for yourself and him to get back together. So respect his wishes, If he says that do not call him, do so, If he says that he doesn&#8217;t want you and him to see each other for a while, Just do that.</p>
<p><b>Dress Nice</b> -Most women forget that one of the best ways to attract their ex boyfriend is to look more appealing physically. this is very important ladies. If you expect your ex boyfriend somewhere, Bring yourself out in a nice way. put on some good makeup and wear some nice clothes, usually his test. Don over do it, Do it in a respectable manner and as always, respect yourself. So as a word of advice on how to get your ex boyfriend back, Make yourself more appealing to him physically.</p>
<p>Will my ex boyfriend come back to me? This is something that you must work on. Start attracting your ex boyfriend back by being nice to him, dressing nice, being someone he&#8217;d like to get back together with by respecting his wishes. How to get your ex boyfriend back has a lot to do with these things that we have discussed here. For helpful information and resources, Check Will my ex boyfriend come back below. Things may not go like you always expect and if this is the case, Just calm down and take things slow.</p>
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<p>Do you wonder, &#8220;<b>Will my ex boyfriend come back?&#8221;</b> If so, don&#8217;t fret. You&#8217;re no different than millions of other women who have been dumped by their loved ones.</p>
<p>Most women are overwhelmed with feelings of inadequacy and anger when a lover breaks up with them. Some women even become desperate to get their lovers back. This desperation can lead to all kinds of extreme actions, from stalking their ex lover to trying to sabotage this new relationship.</p>
<p>Other women may try to get revenge on their ex by becoming extremely promiscuous or by releasing sensitive pictures of their ex to the public.</p>
<p>Naturally, you don&#8217;t want to be that kind of woman. Even if you&#8217;re wondering, &#8220;Will my ex ever come back?,&#8221; you don&#8217;t need to resort to these drastic measures. In fact, you can sit back and relax, because you have a better than good chance of getting your ex back, if you play your cards right.</p>
<p>Even if your ex has moved on to another woman and has said he wants nothing more to do with you, you&#8217;ve still got a chance to make him yours again. In fact, you have a great deal of control over how your ex behaves toward you, whether you know it or not.</p>
<p>In order to get your ex back, all you have to do is act in the appropriate way. What way is this? There are a very specific set of steps you need to follow to bring him back to you.</p>
<p>Deviate from any of these steps, and you&#8217;ll probably lose him for good. Stick to the plan, however, and you could be enjoying blissful togetherness with your ex again before you know it. This plan involves a lot of things that may seem counter-intuitive, such as avoiding contacting him for a month after the breakup, and refraining from sitting at home moping about him. However, these things work!</p>
<p>So, rather than sitting around wondering, &#8220;Will my ex ever come back?,&#8221; you should be making plans to put your reconciliation plan into action.</p>
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<p>Before you do anything else, I want you to take a look at this&#8230; <a href="http://www.myloverback.com">How To Get An Ex Back</a>&#8230; inside you&#8217;ll find a clever psychological tips to getting back into your lover&#8217;s heart &#8211; no matter how bad the situation.</p>
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<p>im 17 and a black guy and i like white women im more attracted to white women then black women i like black women to race dosent matter to me but everytime i date a white woman every one has a problem with its 2009 not 1950 IS ANYONE GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING
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<p>My boyfriend is black. To be honest, we&#8217;re all just a different shade of brown, as said by Heidi Klum. Her and Seal are both successful and so I think that colour really doesn&#8217;t matter.</p>
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<p>Relationship advice for women is not the same advice that is usually given to men. Do you wonder why this is so? Every person is an individual but women think more alike than men especially when it comes to relationships. Communication for women takes on a different approach and their priorities are not the same as the men. In relationships, men think with their mind while women more often are guided by their feelings.</p>
<p>Women&#8217;s relationship counselling&nbsp;tackles this diversity so that some behavioral changes can be made and women can better understand the reasons for a man&rsquo;s actions and why it is hard to change him.</p>
<p>A common example of the difference in communication of men and women is girls getting together. There is endless talking about anything under the sun and this usually involves emotions. Relationship advice for women is to understand that men are not like them.</p>
<p>When men get together, they may crack jokes and laugh but other than this, they just usually share information and nothing else. A woman wants to sit down with her man and talk about their feelings and emotions but her man doesn&rsquo;t respond the way she wants him to. Men by nature are not expressive of their inner thoughts and relationship&nbsp;counselling for women means she should accept that and not expect her man to be like her.</p>
<p>When dealing with relationship advice for women, it is best to remember that women view themselves as part of a couple or family. Their identity depends in great part on the cohesiveness of their partnership and the family they have. But for men, their identity is distinct from their spouse and they are not as engrossed in the idea of family as the women. Good <a href="http://www.helpfuladviceonline.com/divorce">relationship advice for women</a> is to know the difference inherent in genders and realizing that there is little she can do about it.</p>
<p>This is not to say that men don&rsquo;t care about their partner; they just put it in a different context. This explains why men don&rsquo;t call as much or why they sometimes forget birthdays and anniversaries. It is not thoughtlessness or negligence. Relationship advice for women means understanding how the mind of the male species works and why they think and act that way.</p>
<p>But this difference in the make-up of men and women is not an excuse for the men not to meet their women halfway and contribute to keeping the fires in the relationship burning brightly. They should not think that relationship advice for women means bending over backwards for the men. Being more open than usual is a good first step for men to take if this is an important issue with their women. They can also improve on their thoughtfulness or lack of it.</p>
<p>All relationships are made up of two people trying to please the other by giving importance to what the other wants. Relationship advice for women does not mean they should take the back seat and give up everything. It is simply helping women understand their man better.</p>
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<p>When you break up, mixed feelings of sorrow and fury fill both ends. You want to get you ex back but you can&#8217;t because of the wall those ill feelings have created between the both of you. If you&#8217;re telling yourself it won&#8217;t heal, trust me, you can still mend your bond, making it stronger than ever! Here&#8217;s how:</p>
<p>Admit and apologize</p>
<p>Before you can reach your ex, you need to break the thick wall between the both of you. How? Show your lost lover sincerely that you&#8217;re sorry for whatever you did that might&#8217;ve aroused her anger and created negative feelings between the both of you, and that you&#8217;re working to remove your disliked traits. This should create a setup, removing all negative feelings between the both of you and preparing the stage for the next move.</p>
<p>Earn respect</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t make the common mistake of crying, begging, and pleading. Instead, tell your ex calmly that you accept their decision. Have some self esteem, be content, and move on like a mature person. Your ex is bound to get impressed and respect you for it.</p>
<p>Get a life!</p>
<p>Start a new hobby, divert your mind. Do something fun and creative, start exercising (it prevents depression), get a makeover, shop for new clothes and feel free! Don&#8217;t close yourself in and feel miserable, instead try to feel fresh and confident. This will help you feel confident and focused. Your attraction charisma will double! With all this under your belt, you&#8217;ll be able to be around you ex while making it look natural.</p>
<p>Chill out</p>
<p>Make your changes noticeable, and remain optimistic. Your ex is bound to notice how well you&#8217;re doing, and come running back to you, realizing that you aren&#8217;t missing on much, but they are surely missing out on a lot. Let you ex make the move now, your job is done. All you need to do, is watch the magic work.</p>
<p>It is quite possible to <a target="_new" href="http://www.lonelinesstohappiness.com/">get your ex back</a> regardless of whether they eloped with someone else or not. I have successfully done it myself and you can do it too. Of course, you have to know how to do it effectively.</p>
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<p>If you think that your relationship is worth of saving&#8230; you should fight for it. You can reverse the breakup and get your ex back&#8230; just like I have.</p>
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